Like
many of us, my father would often say, “I hate my boss. I hate my
job. I can't wait to retire so my time is my own.”
My
father took an early retirement at 55 as a mechanical engineer from
the Los Angeles DWP, and he finally had the time to do what he
wanted. The problem was, he had no idea exactly what it was he
wanted to do -- with the exception of drinking himself into a stupor.
At
his funeral, there were few friends to lament his passing, to share
wonderful stories of time spent together, or to pass on life lessons
he had taught to them. No co-workers stopped by, so there weren’t
any work stories to be shared, to tell us of accomplishments that
should
be remembered. And even the Rabbi was hard pressed to find stories
that might show some
meaning to his life.
Perhaps,
that’s why I really wrote, “The
Message of You” --
because I believe that when you clearly understand your life’s
message, it gives you purpose.
Most of our lives, like my father’s life, are dictated by the
needs of others, our family, and our business obligations. But,
when we’re not doing the things we have
to – how many of us can get up out of bed excited to express
ourselves and do what we love
to do -- and know that it is what we were born
to do?
Your
message is your legacy. I’m getting so many wonderful emails from
readers of The Message of You who find it eye opening to do
the exercises in the book, examining the journey of their life -- and
finding it’s meaning.
Don’t
mistake “The Message of You" Conference in October as just
another speaking conference. It’s more than that. It just could
be a life changing conference where you take an amazing journey –
into yourself. Just like my dad -- you don’t have forever. What
are you going to do today to determine how you will be
remembered?
Sign
up, travel to the conference, and be ready to discover your message.
I’ll help you get started.
The
rest -- is up to you.
Very moving post. I'm grateful that my memories of my father are more positive.
ReplyDeleteI hadn't thought of "The Message of You" being a path to finding purpose in life.